Julian Mills Fite, the son of Tessa Spencer, passed away on July 28, 2025, at the age of 24, leaving behind family members and friends who treasured him deeply. Born in Charleston, South Carolina, on August 30, 2000, Julian’s life was marked by creativity, personal expression, and meaningful connections with the people around him. His passing brought profound grief to those who loved him, while his memory continues through the stories and experiences they shared. 
Julian was remembered as a creative and expressive young man with a passion for poetry, photography, music, and performance art. A graduate of Ashley Ridge High School in 2018, he later attended Trident Technical College, where he explored his interest in film. He also participated in spoken-word events, using artistic expression to communicate his thoughts and feelings. These creative pursuits formed an important part of his identity and gave him ways to connect with others.
Those who knew Julian remember more than his artistic interests. His obituary described his kindness, generosity, sense of humour, and loyalty to family and friends. Whether through shared laughter, his energetic personality, or the moments he spent creating and performing, Julian left memories that his loved ones can continue to carry with them. His life was not defined solely by the difficulties he experienced, but also by his individuality, relationships, and creative spirit.
Julian died by suicide after years of struggles involving his mental health. His mother, Tessa Spencer, has since spoken publicly about the family’s experience, seeking greater awareness and support for young people living with serious mental health conditions. His story highlights the complexity of mental illness and the deep impact it can have on individuals and families. It also underscores the importance of compassion, timely care, and making it easier for people to seek help without fear of judgment.
Julian is survived by loved ones, including his mother, Tessa Spencer, his father, Lewis Fite Jr., his stepfather, Reginald Burton, and his brother, James Fite. Though his life ended far too soon, his creative work, memories, and the love he shared with others remain part of his legacy. May those who mourn Julian find comfort in remembering the many dimensions of his life and strength in the support of those around them.
